I am not a perfect person, but I am not abusive or controlling.
There is also the stereotype that men should not ask for help, should be able to take care of themselves, and are used to dealing with violent situations.
Jeckyll and Mr.
Last time he tried to choke me in front of my kids!
Having really extreme feelings or over-the-top behavior that feels like too much.
They seem to be around less than usual.
Blames Others for Their Feelings:
I would like to personally thank wikiHow for helping me recognize the signs of an abuser.