Should you forgive someone for cheating. You might like to think of it as a warning sign that something needs addressing within your relationship or in your life: 18.09.2018 Kazijinn How do I handle this? Someone who is verbally abusive is not in love with you. But think of the damage it could cause and hold it back in. Maintaining Relationships. As we therapists are fond of saying, the only way out is through. I have been married twice and I was not the one cheating. I would never do that! It is not easy. Footer Need Hope for Your Journey? Actually i cnt live without him. Though it can feel very comforting or powerfully releasing to be forgivenmake no mistake: I was however busted for that one evening of exchanges and it became a big deal and felt like she was done with me.