I now know that it is indeed ok to realize that the way I was treated as a child was wrong.
It may, in fact, be true.
Never ever give any inkling as to some kind of a relationship might be possible afterwards.
Many of those are NPD and many of those are not.
Problem is finding someone with the DBT training and patience to treat a borderline.
It causes severe mood shifts from highs mania or hypomania to lows depression.
Very sad indeed, the movie was depressing.
He lied, very pretty lies, and because I really liked him, I wanted to believe him.
I was already feeling hopeless and thinking I might actually have BPD…well it makes me want to end my life now.
Wishing you all the best in recovery mode.