Husband does not communicate with me. Guard my tongue and my mind from sinful habits. 18.03.2019 Gubar Psalms Just hope I can get him back!! He continually shifts blame and responsibility. First things first with this, don't focus on trying to change him, because you can't. Reaching a compromise is not impossible and it can save your relationship. Thank you for seeing through the clouds enough to reach out to me and others. Daddio7 answered about a year ago. It could only be God to work out all those details. I think they are reasonable questions, but I think we should clarify the kind of situation Pastor Wilson is describing.