All you'd have to do is change the names and occupations.
They eventually married and got a house in Malibu and we became friends; I remember they introduced me to pot.
But not now.
Jed Diamond says:
More than often, these men cheat and will trade up as soon as they start making some money.
R, what keeps me from believing his story is that he hid the bodies instead of calling authorities.
At the same time it seems that our four kids are going through stuff and adding stress, a car wreck, acting out, tantrums, and on and on.
He will probably go find someone else to adore him and then play the poor victim in our separation, saying I just stopped loving him and no matter what he tried, and he tried SO HARD, I would not give him another chance.
I am so glad, u write this blog of how bravely u are.
In the early days, when we lived far away from my friends and family, he was what to use to keep hair straight physical- damaging furniture etc- and every so often over the years his aggression did erupt- but often he would use the tactics you describe of your partner, the emotional coldness, humiliation, making fun- all passive aggressive and indirect clues as to the horrible feelings within.
Share your grieving with people who understand you, who have been there, who know how hard it is.